You should not be shocked when she does not miss you when you are gone. You did teach her how not to miss you. You did not show her that you really missed her. She did not feel that she added any value to your life. You did make her feel like you never missed her. She did not feel like her absence made a difference to you.
You should not be stunned when she does spend more time with her friends than you. Moreover, you did teach her that you will not care about her as much as her friends do. You did not listen when she spoke and you did not remember what she told you.
Additionally, you should not be astonished when she begins to plan something without you. You did teach her that you will always say no. Furthermore, you did teach her how to plan her future without you. You did not want to put yourself in her shoes.
You should not be shocked when you aren’t the first person she calls when she wakes up in the morning. You did teach her that you will not show up when she needs you. You did teach her how to count on someone else.
Also, you should not be shocked when she does not pay attention to you. You have been ignoring this girl for months or even years. She has usually been the one that tried harder. She has often been the one to adjust her own schedule for you. She has always been the one compromising.
You should not be stunned when she starts drifting away. She begins to remember who she was before she fell in love with you. She begins to understand that she settles with you. She begins to understand what she really deserves. She begins to realize how much you take her for granted. She begins to realize that someone else can treat her much better.
You should not be surprised when she is no longer caring or attentive. You should not be astonished when her burning passion begins to turn cold and her tender words begin to turn sour. You should not be shocked when she looks at you and does not feel anything.
You should not be shocked when she leaves since you gave her no reason to stay. You did teach her how to stop loving you.