Love can be a beautiful yet a strange and complex emotion. In addition, human behavior in itself is also an intricate web of facts and realities to understand.
Everybody expresses their emotions differently, depending on both their gender and age; as their emotional and psychological responses to handle love vary.
That’s why it’s hard to get the hints that the emotions your partner is showing are indeed of love. So, not being sure if your partner loves you back is one of the scariest things in the world.
10 Signs Your Partner Truly Loves You:
– They do not play games with you
If your partner genuinely loves you, they will never send mixed signals, play mind games or toy with your emotions in order to manipulate you. They know that true love is only possible through open communication and honesty. They do not mess with your emotions as they do not try to test you—your love, intelligence, understanding, emotional capability, and loyalty, and they do not want to manipulate you.
– They make you feel good about yourself
They make you feel good about yourself. They take the time to understand who you truly are, what makes you tick, and give you validation and affection about it. They may do it subconsciously, but it’s a clear sign that they are deeply in love with you.
– They believe in you and inspire you to aim higher
They believe in you. They know you are capable of great things all by yourself. They have faith that you can achieve your goals. They also inspire you to aim higher. They make you feel fearless and motivate you to try anything without a doubt in your mind that you can achieve it.
– They are always there when you need support
They know that there’re some things in life that require support and team work. So, they support you when you are tackling an ambitious goal or going through a tragic event or a difficult transition. They do not turn away from you when you need them the most. They pay attention to you whenever you are upset, even if it means giving up some time with their friends.
– They keep you grounded and humble
They love and understand you on a deep level. So, they do not allow you to lose sight of yourself. They want you to be confident and successful, but they also want you to remember who you are and where you came from. They keep you in touch with your humility as well as keep you grounded in the best way. They also encourage you to become a well-rounded person.
– They show an abundance of affection to you
They know that human connection can be a comforting thing whenever you are upset or simply going on about your daily life. So, they show an abundance of affection to you. They look into your eyes, hold your hands, and put their arms around you. They give you a backrub or scratch your arm while you are sitting on the couch. They sit close to you while you are watching TV. They also do not have a hard time having a long, heartfelt discussion about their feelings towards you.
– They often use the word ‘we’
They love you so much that they see you in their future with them. That’s why they use the word “we” instead of “I”. If you hear that they use the word “we” frequently while they are talking to you or to somebody else about you, it means that they are deeply in love with you.
– They show interest in all the activities you do
They show interest in all the activities that you do. If you play guitar, read a book, paint, cook, go horse riding, or play a video game and they show interest in all those activities you like or even want to join you, it’s a sign that they truly love you. Seeing you excited and happy talking about your interests makes them happy and that’s why they bother enough to spend all that time getting to know what those activities are and why they’ve caught your attention.
– They leave you surprise gifts and lovely notes all around
Grand gestures for big celebrations and anniversaries are a normal thing. Everyone prepares presents on these occasions. However, they know that it is the small acts of kindness and surprise gifts that have the most value and can make your entire day. The last piece of your favorite chocolate left for you, a compliment, a small “I Love You” card hidden in your wallet, a funny message scribbled on the bathroom mirror with toothpaste, a playlist of your favorite songs, or a neck massage, the examples are endless.
– They opt for a thoughtful conversation whenever a problem arises
When a stormy period comes and there is a problem or a situation to talk about, they opt for a thoughtful conversation, as they truly care about your relationship and the harmony between you two. They never suppress discussion.