Perhaps you are a woman that often wonders if she’s too much to be with, too hard to love, too much to hold, and too much to handle.
You are probably a kind-hearted, attractive and independent woman, but when a man begins to dig deeper, you are suddenly “too much.” It may seem like you look good on paper but you are too much to be with in real life as it does require men to do things that they are not ready to do: to think outside the box, to grow, and to work harder.
You’ve probably lost count of how many times you’ve heard the following words: ‘You’re too much’.
You are too nice, too mean, too crazy, too funny, too moody, too emotional, too bitchy, too bossy, too sexy, too direct, too loud, too bold, too blunt, too opinionated, etc.
You come off as too conservative, too risky, too demure, too sexual, too aggressive, too strong, too talkative, too confident, too shy, too wild, and too much of everything.
However, you are probably proud of being a “too much woman” as you do not half-ass anything. You desire too much, want too much, think too much, ask too often, feel too deeply, and love too hard. You do too much or nothing at all.
You are a “too much woman”, since you are too smart, too passionate and too strong, love too hard, have too many standards and too many dreams, etc.
You are a “too much woman”, as you do not shrink to control what others think of you. You were not made to fit into a box that’s too small for the magnificence that you hold inside.
To you, being a too much woman means being wholeheartedly, unapologetically, and fiercely you. You refuse to give up on yourself. You do not quiet down your heart but want to share yourself with the world.
You don’t have to apologize for the full magnitude of the person that you are. You don’t have to apologize for having needs or voicing them, although you know you will be seen as too outspoken or too bitchy.
You know that you cannot change the world right away, but you can create a space in it that’ll make you happy. You know that you can make a difference in the world by staying true to yourself. You know that you should love each aspect of your true nature as well as gain the confidence and power that come from connecting to your truest truth.
But, you simply know what you want and won’t settle for anything less. You just demand exactly what you want out of life.