You should get to know yourself better. Acknowledge your strengths, weaknesses and limitations. Do the things that make you heart flutter and that make you glad to be alive. Let yourself know when to try something different, when to quit, and be OK with being unable to do it all.
Learn how to express your feelings to let those around you know you love and appreciate them as well as strengthen your relationships with them.
Learn to hold your tongue. You shouldn’t say everything you think. Remember that sometimes people want you to listen to them, rather than give them advice. Sometimes they simply need understanding and sympathy.
You should also get outside your comfort zone. Although you like comfort, you should see what life is all about. Expose yourself to new languages, people and ideas. Challenge yourself to visit new cities and try new things.
It may be scary and it may feel weird at first, but it may expand your horizons and improve your life for the better.
Build your relationship with yourself and spend some time alone. For instance, stay in on a Saturday night with just yourself, a good book, and a glass of wine. It may feel lonely and weird at first, but it will help you learn more about yourself.
Do not allow toxic people to drain you or cling to you. Identify them and then let them go. Spend more time with positive people that make your day a little brighter just by being in it.
Do not hide your feelings from the people that have hurt you, protect your heart from potential rejection, or shelter yourself from ideas that scare you. While keeping something private is healthy, you should not overdo it. You should open up, both intellectually and emotionally.
Also, take the trip you have been putting off and do not come up with excuses of why you cannot do it right now. Stop doing something you do not like, whether it is a job or an obligation you feel you owe somebody. Do not worry about who you may disappoint or let down. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy.
Do not hold onto the past and the memories of your ex. Do not hurt yourself doing so. You must be strong and brave.
You should not also stay in a place if you are not happy. Do not worry about what you may miss. Instead, think about what you are missing out on staying in a place you do not like. Remember that the world is so much bigger than that city, that love or that job you believe you lost.
Stop blaming other people for your own problems, and take responsibility for your life. Blaming other people is a simple way of not taking responsibility for yourself, a way to excuse your for what’s going on. However, it’s also the easiest way of losing control over your life.
Stop waiting and complaining. Forget the blame and focus on your goals and on the things you can fix. Do not let negativity prevent you from taking action.
You should learn to love yourself the same way you love other people. You shouldn’t always try to please others or pay too much attention to what they think of you. Do not always seek their approval or sacrifice your own needs and wants. Start doing things just for you if you want to live your life to the fullest.
You may want a reward and immediate results before you put the work in. But, you must be patient.
You always see things in black and white terms. Everything is either good or bad. Work is either great or it sucks. There’s no such thing as a bad day at work in a good job. There’s no such thing as good people that make mistakes.
But, you should learn to seek out the gray in life. You should show more compassion if a loved one makes a mistake, or acknowledge the good parts of a great job on a stressful day.
You should also stop holding grudges. You should forgive those that hurt you and enjoy your life more.
You like adventure and have a hard time committing to anything at all. Although your go with the flow attitude is OK, sometimes you should stay put. Commitment is difficult, but it’ll be worth it. It’ll improve your relationships, your discipline, and your life.
You must also understand that it is OK to be vulnerable. You should learn to express your emotions if you want to connect to people. Remember that love will not hurt you every time.
Your work hard attitude is awesome, but your career will not be ruined and your office will not burn down if you stop and enjoy your life. Your work may benefit from a break.
So, turn off your phone, go on a vacation, and try something new. Hang out with your friends, see a funny movie, read a book for fun, and go for a walk. Learn to live a life that’s balanced in both play and work. Learn to live a life that makes you excited to get up in the morning.
You need to go after the person or thing you cannot stop thinking about. If you cannot stop thinking about someone or something that is exactly what you should go for. Do not be afraid of it, as you will either get what you want or learn an important lesson.
You should also try to express your love for others. You must understand that life is not all about being smart. It is also about being capable of forging emotional connections with others. Do not withhold your emotions if you want to live a happy, fulfilling life.
Do not be afraid to get into a relationship or fall in love with someone. Remember that not everybody will hurt you.
But, you shouldn’t take yourself so seriously. You shouldn’t take your feelings so seriously. Do not treat each emotion that enters your atmosphere with the utmost importance. Do not overanalyze it. Sometimes, you should simply observe and let it go.
Also, you shouldn’t blame yourself for things ending. Remember that it is not your fault when people walk away or things end.